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I (F) am new to the whole dating thing, tbf, but the first dates I've been on have made me somewhat uncomfortable. The first guy on our second date was constantly trying to grope me during this movie we were watching (i.e my chest and lower regions), the second guy just tried to suprise kiss me out of nowhere as he was leaving after our first date i thought he was lunging at me, and the third guy on our first date I thought i would try to tell him I dont want to get into too much physical touch just while we are starting to get to know each other since I am inexperienced in romance(to avoid the same stuff I experienced with the previous dates) and 5 min late he is stroking my upper thigh, trying to kiss me and saying "mate dont be weird just relax" everytime I tried to reject him and trying to "come over to my place."

I just want to know if this is normal for online dating, perhaps? Is everyone eager to "get to the point" because I am assuming they have to cycle through so many people? I just want to know so I can either keep trying online or maybe focus my energy on irl methods.